A stubborn person shows dogged determination not to change one's attitude or position on something, especially in spite of good arguments or reasons to do so.
It is the tendency to resist any form of change.
Stubborness is effectively a resistance to life itself and leads nowhere.
Anything new or different or involving change is perceived (perhaps unconsciously) as a direct threat- even if the change in question is positive and in the person's best interest.
If you think you may be stubborn ask yourself: Why do I resist change?
What am I afraid of?
What do I fear would happen to me if I allowed uncontrollable changes to happen?
If looking deeper ask yourself, How was I hurt in the past? Can I let it go?
It is the tendency to resist any form of change.
Stubborness is effectively a resistance to life itself and leads nowhere.
Anything new or different or involving change is perceived (perhaps unconsciously) as a direct threat- even if the change in question is positive and in the person's best interest.
If you think you may be stubborn ask yourself: Why do I resist change?
What am I afraid of?
What do I fear would happen to me if I allowed uncontrollable changes to happen?
If looking deeper ask yourself, How was I hurt in the past? Can I let it go?
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